The Endless Wait

Have you ever met someone you thought you really hit off with! then the next day you wait for that phone call that will never come! Well let me tell you; the next 24 hours are going to be very difficult! You want to know how I know all of that! Well , am in this position ( The word position Makes it sound so dirty) right now! I mean I look at my phone more often the my heart beat (there are some exaggerating to that) Why do the do that to us! I mean, I though he was perfect! Ladies help me out here! Did I do something wrong, did I come on a little too strong! I mean the whole night he keep saying he found me to be an incredible girl, Well those weren't his word exactly. Now could it have been the fact that I did not spend the night at his place!

Though You know When I think of it, It's not their fault, I mean It happen before and the worst thing is I go through the same feelings ! and set myself up for the same thing every time! And the funny thing is I always act like am shock when they don't, Well its not really that funny,but you see where am coming from. But to be a little more educated on these things I ask the expect;

Meet Billy Bob, my guy point of view! You know every now and then I need a guy to set me straight about those before I jump to conclusion!


Billy BOB: whats up?

Natacha: When You meet a girl at a bar and You told her you are going to call How long do you wait before you call

Billy Bob: 2 or 3 days

Natacha: Why I mean You told her u will call the next day Billy Bob: you don't want to seem too eager, like you're stalking her or something. So you wait a few days.

sometime you might say that, but just mean it to mean that you will call in a couple days

Natacha: Wow

Billy Bob: i don't know, it depends on the situation and the context

Natacha: Well, the first 24 hours are the worst for the girl

I mean we keep staring at our phone like nothing in the world matters

Billy Bob: yeah, i think some guys think they'll screw it up if they call too soon

and some guys will get a number and then never get up the nerve to call it

Natacha: Well that helps me a lot I never view it like that

Billy Bob:yeah, give him a few days, then contact him if you really want to make it work


Well Ladies Their is nothing I can tell you to That would any better than what Billy said ( by the way I His name has been changed to protect who ever am trying to protect him from)
Now readers that' where you come in! Please Sent me you questions and experiences Or leave me a comment! I need to know what you guys are curious to know

Money+time+/pain= Beauty

Ouch!!! Holy mother of Pete!!!! Oh my god!!!, That me scream from the self-inflicted pain am going through. why you ask? well I decided to give myself a Wax! So whose bright idea was it to invent the sticky paper that could make a grown man or woman cry like a little child! I want to know who! I mean it's hard enough every morning I end up putting chemical on my face just so I could look attractive enough to be approach by the male specie. But now the waxing! I mean I cried like a little girl when I pulled that waxing paper of my skin.

I know what you thinking, " well Tasha there are easier ways to go about it" Oh you mean the smelly lotion or as I call it "smelly goo" I Know about that too i tried it! I spent 20 minutes applying the smelly junk to my leg, just so I can spend 3-6 minutes standing like a girl with a dildo between her Va jay-jay. The funny thing is they tell you to apply evenly, like dear god you gonna be able to know just how to apply it evenly. By the time you finish applying it and you rinse your hands, you realize all the hair on your hands are missing, especially your finger area. So then in your head you thinking " was that long enough" or " is this thing even on the back of my legs" how the hell am I suppose to know since I cant see back there".

I mean don't get me wrong, am all for suffering for beauty! But does it have to be that bad. I mean really; the money, the time and it's for a short term. Now some of you may think than an exaggeration , but for those who have done it, knows the truth. For you ladies who have yet to try something like waxing I said do it at you own risk. Though I do have to confess, there was more than one reason I did it! Actually there are several reasons behind the excruciating pain; one being its swimming suit season and nowadays all they make are two pieces swimming suit ( which will be another topic). An other reason is the fact I all ways wanted to do it, but never had the motivation to do it until there was a man worth doing it for!

I know, Now you see the reason we as ladies are willing to put our-self through some grueling , and painful things for men. Well the truth is if you saw the guy you would do the same thing! I mean he is a sexy beast. I know , I know that's another topic. But am just trying to prove why we go through pain and the end result is always someone we are trying to impress! Sad but true and am not criticizing that! Hell I do it too. So to all of you ladies who on a regular basis have manicured nails, hairless long legs, and a perfect arch eyebrow, Respect!