for the love of Money

For as long as I can remember I use to joke with my friends about being the gold digger type! The type who marries for money and nothing else. They are picky about a certain thing. But ladies I have a surprise for you! Gold Diggers are out of style. Now a day we no longer care how much you have in the bank, or how much you can bring home. Now it's how much you have in your heart. Yes, you heard me right. I think as women we got tired of searching for mr. rich but start to looking for mr. "I know what you need"! You think am wrong; let's see Bravo runs a tv show call the Millionaire Club . A show where the host find girls to match with men who are too rich or busy to find time to meet someone. If you want even more shock, you should try to find the episode where this guy propose to the girl on their third date! Please someone help me. Now don't get me wrong I am not bashing the show , actually I found what she does very admirable. But could very rich and independent men be that lonely. Try entering " millionaire match "on Google. You will have a whole day of work in front of you! Their are both men and women that are looking! What I came to conclude is it has to do with your personality not you bank account. Now am not gonna lie to you and tell you we turn a blind eye to it, no not at all. But what use to be a big thing is no longer that important. Now what we look for is your personality. Can you laugh with us and explore the world with us . Are you the type I know will not act like jerk to my friends and The other thing is Trust which is a whole issue we will address at a different time.
On the other hand Could it be that we as ladies stop setting our standers high and we are willing to settle with whoever comes our way! I mean, let think about this for a sec. Tell me, does your boyfriend have a job? Now if you telling me he is your husband who doesn't have a job, there is nothing I can do about that. And just to clear somethings, I am not talking about the kind who can't work because they are injured or something is wrong with them physically. No, I am talking about the ones where The good Lord gives them two legs two arms the the capability to work and yet the are doing nothing about it. As for the millionaire guys that are looking I want to know what are you looking for. I mean lets be serious there is a certain type you go for that always gets you in trouble, you You know the person cause you made the mistake more than once. The advise I have for you is ladies no longer care about you bank account. We want to know how will take care of us emotionally, physically, and yes one more thing Personality.